Ok, I can’t contain it anymore…I have to tell one of my secrets that I have been holding. These secrets have been KILLING me! I couldn’t even think of anything else to blog about, so I haven’t been blogging.

I’m getting married Sunday right after church.
This may surprise some who thought that Ron and I were already married, but we’re not. It cracks me up that quite a few of our friends just assumed we were married-lol!
We have been together officially for over 13 years. I say officially because we went on a date once a year or so before, but the timing wasn’t right. He had custody of his kids, so there were 3 people there to think about there. And I had 3 kids.
We were friends before that and stayed friends. And when the time was right we hooked up. But not the way God intended for people to hook up. Since going back to church, I’ve been severly convicted by God concerning that.
So I prayed. Funny how God works.
In the past, when someone mentioned marriage, Ron always had a comeback (like he always does-lol!)…usually negative. You know, the old ball & chain talk.
So I prayed for God to bring him to church and also to soften his heart regarding marriage.
God was faithful! Ron has been to church a few times- granted it’s when food is present, but it’s a start.
Now this: He started talking about us getting married! Just little off-the-cuff remarks. He also likes to watch Redneck Weddings. Lately he’s always got some kind of comment about how he’d do things differently if it was his wedding…no more ball & chain talk.
Sunday at church they are having worship, then a short play (which I happen to be in) , then a breakfast. After the place clears out, we’ll have the wedding. We told people around 1:15.
Ron keeps telling everyone if they don’t come to church for the service, they can’t come to the wedding. So several friends are coming for the play & breakfast, too!
He’s so funny, my honey! But boy oh boy, he just keeps getting better and better everyday! And one step closer to our Lord & Savior- even if he doesn’t realize it’s happening……
We decided to do this just after Thanksgiving and decided to do it right away. We just got the date set in stone last week. This was going to just be a small affair with Ron, the kids & I….we were going to send everyone a videotape after.
But the secret got out and now who knows how many people are coming now…but it’s all good!
I’m excited…but I’m still looking for a dress.
So gotta go…just wanted to update everyone.